10 ‘Fifty Shades of Grey’ sexual experiences to relish today
14 February 2015, published by LITTLEROCK.com.mt
Fantasy becomes reality!
Read on...
Have balls
Before going out to dinner with Christian, Ana inserts vaginal balls so that every time she moves, she becomes stimulated. While most of us may consider this an unlikely proposition, try "forgetting" to wear your underwear on your next date night, and casually mention it to your partner. Extended foreplay heightens desire and leads to deeper sexual intimacy because sex is more fun and orgasm is just a bonus.
Rev your engines
Replicate the high-speed car chase scene followed by Ana mounting Christian... in a risk-free way: the allure of car sex is about being an exhibitionist; you could get caught and that's hot (do not get caught, there are legal implications!) Adapt your make out session: try oral sex or mount him like Ana did.
Get dirty in the shower
Ana and Christian took shower sex to a whole other level. Begin your night with a shower together, caressing and fondling to heighten that desire. If you're feeling like sex at this point, let your man take you from behind while you steady yourself hands on the wall.
Do it anywhere
One of the first and most exhilarating sex scenes is when Christian takes Ana on his office desk. The idea is about about acting on your sexual impulses, no matter where you are. A quickie does not need to incorporate intercourse or orgasm; in fact the physical and psychological anticipation can lead to hotter sex later.
Naughty is nice
Mr Grey knew his stuff: spanking can enhance orgasm! Pain and pleasure both have the ability to release dopamine in your brain, resulting in an intoxicated feeling that can lead to a trance of passion. Incorporate light spanking into foreplay or intercourse naturally.
Use a tie
Domination and submission is a common sexual fantasy for both sexes. Particularly if you tend to take the lead role in life, being taken and submitting to authority in the bedroom can be very appealing. Following the cue of Mr Grey: have your partner use one of his ties to bind you or use one of your scarves to bind him into submission.
Make love blind
Technically, the idea is to minimise one sense - sight - thereby enhancing the others, including touch. Our skin is our biggest sex organ and much of our sexual feeling begins there. Have some surprises at the ready: a feather, for example.
Get hot with ice cubes
Ice cubes, in addition, can create an uncomfortable sensation which is not quite painful, but which in itself is exciting because you can submit to someone without experiencing actual pain. Put ice cubes in your mouth and then perform oral sex to really heat things up.
Go over your limits
Some of the things described in the book are probably off limits to most of us, but the joys of the anus should not be overlooked. The area below the vaginal opening is rife with nerve endings; massaging this area during foreplay will prepare you for a more intense orgasm.
Vanilla with cherries on top
Vanilla sex is what a culture regards as standard or conventional sexual behaviour, such as missionary position or woman on top. While adventurous positions are exciting, they can also be demanding, so do continue to indulge in the positions you're comfortable with so that you can relax completely—an essential requisite for women to orgasm. Be adventurous during foreplay and transition to what you already know works for you; it's vanilla sex... with a few cherries on top!
Read on...
Have balls
Before going out to dinner with Christian, Ana inserts vaginal balls so that every time she moves, she becomes stimulated. While most of us may consider this an unlikely proposition, try "forgetting" to wear your underwear on your next date night, and casually mention it to your partner. Extended foreplay heightens desire and leads to deeper sexual intimacy because sex is more fun and orgasm is just a bonus.
Rev your engines
Replicate the high-speed car chase scene followed by Ana mounting Christian... in a risk-free way: the allure of car sex is about being an exhibitionist; you could get caught and that's hot (do not get caught, there are legal implications!) Adapt your make out session: try oral sex or mount him like Ana did.
Get dirty in the shower
Ana and Christian took shower sex to a whole other level. Begin your night with a shower together, caressing and fondling to heighten that desire. If you're feeling like sex at this point, let your man take you from behind while you steady yourself hands on the wall.
Do it anywhere
One of the first and most exhilarating sex scenes is when Christian takes Ana on his office desk. The idea is about about acting on your sexual impulses, no matter where you are. A quickie does not need to incorporate intercourse or orgasm; in fact the physical and psychological anticipation can lead to hotter sex later.
Naughty is nice
Mr Grey knew his stuff: spanking can enhance orgasm! Pain and pleasure both have the ability to release dopamine in your brain, resulting in an intoxicated feeling that can lead to a trance of passion. Incorporate light spanking into foreplay or intercourse naturally.
Use a tie
Domination and submission is a common sexual fantasy for both sexes. Particularly if you tend to take the lead role in life, being taken and submitting to authority in the bedroom can be very appealing. Following the cue of Mr Grey: have your partner use one of his ties to bind you or use one of your scarves to bind him into submission.
Make love blind
Technically, the idea is to minimise one sense - sight - thereby enhancing the others, including touch. Our skin is our biggest sex organ and much of our sexual feeling begins there. Have some surprises at the ready: a feather, for example.
Get hot with ice cubes
Ice cubes, in addition, can create an uncomfortable sensation which is not quite painful, but which in itself is exciting because you can submit to someone without experiencing actual pain. Put ice cubes in your mouth and then perform oral sex to really heat things up.
Go over your limits
Some of the things described in the book are probably off limits to most of us, but the joys of the anus should not be overlooked. The area below the vaginal opening is rife with nerve endings; massaging this area during foreplay will prepare you for a more intense orgasm.
Vanilla with cherries on top
Vanilla sex is what a culture regards as standard or conventional sexual behaviour, such as missionary position or woman on top. While adventurous positions are exciting, they can also be demanding, so do continue to indulge in the positions you're comfortable with so that you can relax completely—an essential requisite for women to orgasm. Be adventurous during foreplay and transition to what you already know works for you; it's vanilla sex... with a few cherries on top!
