Love is not needy, it relishes the opportunity to experience itself. We are so used to "traditional" relationships that we often get caught up with trying to label connections / relations or steer them in a certain direction, instead of living them fully from the heart, in the present moment, without attachment to outcome. Love is free. Love does not fear. Love is not static. Love is ...
"The need to define sexual/romantic relationships also leads to a prioritisation of such, and platonic relationships end up being given the backseat, when in reality they are just as nourishing, intense and important," said one friend. Indeed, friendship is more likely to last a lifetime than a romance, yet we underrate it.
Love is just love, in any form it takes. It relishes the opportunity to experience itself in a unique way between any two people, and it is exponential. It's not like you have one hundred units of love and must be mindful of how to distribute them. It is infinite. In fact, the more you love, the more love you have. Because Love just Is, independently of proximal presence. Love is not needy.
"Non-attachment brings to your loving a quality of universality, in which the object of love is not anymore the cause of it. The source of any form of love is inside you, and you don’t depend on anyone (in particular) to be able to express it," says Raffaello Manacorda, in his article, "Why non-attachment is one of the keys to a happy life and relationship," which was published on the Elephant Journal. It's a good read.
"I love this growing mentality of free love, viewing relationships in a linear form rather than in a hierchical way," continued my friend.
Love is just love, in any form it takes. It relishes the opportunity to experience itself in a unique way between any two people, and it is exponential. It's not like you have one hundred units of love and must be mindful of how to distribute them. It is infinite. In fact, the more you love, the more love you have. Because Love just Is, independently of proximal presence. Love is not needy.
"Non-attachment brings to your loving a quality of universality, in which the object of love is not anymore the cause of it. The source of any form of love is inside you, and you don’t depend on anyone (in particular) to be able to express it," says Raffaello Manacorda, in his article, "Why non-attachment is one of the keys to a happy life and relationship," which was published on the Elephant Journal. It's a good read.
"I love this growing mentality of free love, viewing relationships in a linear form rather than in a hierchical way," continued my friend.
Indeed, relationships are changing form ... into relations. A relation defines itself in the course of time. When love is allowed to flow, without labels, it is free to be, without barriers or expectations. It means full gratitude for any opportunity to witness another and share, moment by moment, and the ability to let go. Commitment is merely a moment by moment choice to be together.
Many may make the mistake of interpreting this as a licence for promiscuity, but not at all: it is about discovering that you can be in love and share intimate relations with many people, even without physical intimacy or sex, in a world where love is misconstrued.
The most important factors, always, are authenticity and transparency. Everything falls into place automatically, when relations evolve from a shared reality and love expression that feels good for everyone.
This requires complete vulnerability, which is at the same time your source of power. By honouring your truth and not being afraid to say "I love you" first, you are accepting and loving yourself completely so you can completely love another in a way that is completely free.
Love is divine power, and loving allows you to experience the godliness in you and others - it is conscious relationship, untainted by fear.
Many may make the mistake of interpreting this as a licence for promiscuity, but not at all: it is about discovering that you can be in love and share intimate relations with many people, even without physical intimacy or sex, in a world where love is misconstrued.
The most important factors, always, are authenticity and transparency. Everything falls into place automatically, when relations evolve from a shared reality and love expression that feels good for everyone.
This requires complete vulnerability, which is at the same time your source of power. By honouring your truth and not being afraid to say "I love you" first, you are accepting and loving yourself completely so you can completely love another in a way that is completely free.
Love is divine power, and loving allows you to experience the godliness in you and others - it is conscious relationship, untainted by fear.
Conscious love is when Consciousness, the masculine, is constantly merging with Life, the feminine as an expression of the divine. It is love without self interest; it loves for the sake of loving. Then the only desire of love is to experience itself.
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